Wednesday, March 19, 2008

GETTING NAKED READY AND THE LOVE LIST 73-75

Yesterday I bought new work-out clothes. New sport bras, t-shirts, sweat pants. I am going back to the gym next week. I have a few more days to chill out because of this blasted freak dairy allergy. I want to be ready...naked ready... You know when I have sex again the body will be ready to be seen naked. Now mind you my Sister-friend JB says women are too hard on our body image. She is RIGHT! So is my Best Friend "R" So I am not concerned with body image, I am concerned with stamina and energy. I want to go the distance sexually. I want to be able to run the marathon. So I am going to train and I want to see some real results by my birthday May 2! So it's on for next week as soon as I get the green light from my Doctor.
And for my birthday, I am buying a whole new sexy underwear and lingerie wardrobe. Now I have lots of great stuff that my Ex has given me over the years, but I am ditching all that stuff! WHY? Because I want new stuff that my new Man will be the only one to see and touch! Now mind you there isn't a new Man...yet! So really I want new sexy unmentionables for my own sense of sexiness and independence. I am giving this some serious thought and I am making it an important part of my new found freedom. But no matter what I am finding my inside sexy and I am letting it shine!
And yes Mr. Torrance Stephens this is a long list--but you have way more qualities than I can list!
The Love List 73-75
  • 73. Can admit lovingly when he is wrong.
  • 74. Does not use my mistakes as a whipping stick against me.
  • 75. Respects our intimate discussions. Is careful and honorable about what he shares with "His Boys" about "Us"

11 comments:

Piecake said...

I love where you're coming from on this one! If sexual stamina and energy aren't good reasons to exercise, I don't know what is!

All-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalo said...

yes maam

Babz Rawls Ivy said...

Hi Piecake,
You are so right and I am deliberately changing my mind about my reasons for exercising!

Torrance,
You are delightful! Yes maam indeed!

dejanae said...

so u just gon throw the ole stuff out???
im sayin
u aint gotta do all that
lol

good luck with the endeavor

Babz Rawls Ivy said...

Dejanae,
Yes indeed! All the old stuff is going away! It would be bad kharma. At first I ws thinking I would keep it all. I mean I really liked all of it, but you know what? I get to choose my own stuff and I will like that better! Besides, I would feel like he was with me while I am underneath someone else.

CapCity said...

Go ONNNN, Sistah LOVE! I go away a few dayz & come back to u tossin' out old draws & gittin' new skivvies! I hear ya! I start my running class tomorrow - pray for me! I really want to like it this time! I want to like the ACTUAL time that I AM doing the RUNNING - not just the stopping & the way i look & feel AFTERWARDS! ;-)

maybe u shouldn't just toss it all - wash 'em in bleach & donate 'em...i mean, SOMEbody withOUT could use a good pair - or is that just too nasty? but can bleach clean draws be too nasty if u homeless & ain't got ANY? I'm just askin'... ?

CapCity said...

ok - went back & read the love list (ONLY the list - couldn't fit in the entire posts in one setting;-) - i think we think quite a BIT alike (except for the sale thang - i'm not much of a shopper, except for SHOES;-)

Natalie said...

I say congratulations. Good for you. I need an underwear and bra overhaul myself.

Babz Rawls Ivy said...

Hey Sister CapCity1

You sound like my blood Sister Lo, she thinks I ought to donate them to the red cross or salvation army. I don't know maybe. I do know that I can't prance around in them for another Man! Bleach on lingerie would dissolve them...LOL!

I am glad you like the love list! It is a real experience doint it!

Hey Natalie, thanks! yes I do think every woman ought to inventory her undies and upgrade!

smoking guns said...

Sexual stamina and energy. I recommend sucking excercises. Ain't nothing like some "smoking" head.

Babz Rawls Ivy said...

Why thank you Smoking Guns! I will certainly take that advice seriously!

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