Monday, March 31, 2008

THE LOVE LIST #100

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The Love List #100
  • 100. We both understand and believe that it is not so much the destination of this love, but the quality of the the journey. It is not two becoming one, but instead two reading from the same map. Each adding to the richness of the other. We both recognize that the path ahead will have pitfalls and road-bumps, but we are committed to riding out the rough spots the same as we share in life's celebrations. We must be willing to tolerate mystery and not seek certainty allowing each to hold the other today and hopefully tomorrow and tomorrow after that and so on and so forth. We joyously, happily and lovingly press on. We revel in the fact that Love steers, Love lifts, LOVE IS.

19 comments:

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

im down with adding richness

Xavier Pierre Jr. said...

Am I correct in assuming that this excercise is quite one of the most important things you have ever done for yourself?

Peace and Love,

Alizé (LoversA.blogspot.com)

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Lovebabz said...

Hello Torrance,
Yes adding richness is far better than two becoming one.

Xavier,
Indeed it is. It was profoundly personal and empowering. I had no idea that I could even get to 100!

dejanae said...

committed to riding it out
AMEN

Lovebabz said...

Hey Dejanae,

Yep, I want a Man who can hang in there when the chips are down and under the table!

the prisoner's wife said...

congrats with reaching 100! that is something I KNOW i woulda slacked on LOL.

We both recognize that the path ahead will have pitfalls and road-bumps, but we are committed to riding out the rough spots the same as we share in life's celebrations.

the story of my (adult) life. so true.

Lovebabz said...

Hey TPW,

I wasn't sure I was going to make it to the end either! When I started I had no diea if I could come up with 100 things!

It takes a great deal of love to weather life's storms. Everybody ain't able and that is where the challenge is when you find out that your partner is not ram tough!

Piecake said...

Great List!
And, It's good to hear you party was a great celebration.

Nice timing with the end of confinement and the completion of the list. Did you plan it that way?

Sharon said...

Go TWIN!!! Congratulations on completing this amazing labor of love. It is an amazing list, and with the deep understanding of yourself and your desires as it relates to love I can't see how you can possibly not be successful at finding your true soul mate and the happiness that comes with him;)

Lovebabz said...

Hey Piecake!
No the universe sort of did it's thing. When the National Blog Posting Month folks said they were going monthly and their first challnege was lists I was like COOL. I was already thinking about crafting a Love List. The end of confinement just seemed to fit in!

Hey Sharon my love!
I know it was truly a labor of love! I can't believe it's done! I am so proud that I hung with it and let it emrge on it's on speed!

-Q. said...

Beautiful, and well said.. And for you my blogging sistah, I have love. -Q.

Lovebabz said...

Q, my beautiful Blogging Man! I missed you so. I kept coming by and no You...sigh. I was wondering if you were ever coming back. I am so glad you are back and you stopped in to see me!
I have much LOVE for you too!

Mizrepresent said...

A wonderful and meaningful finish lady...all is good!

Lovebabz said...

Thanks Miz!

I can't believe it's over!

Sister P said...

Congrats on completion. Will you share this with Mr. Write when he comes along?

CapCity said...

Now that the list is done let the games begin! LOL! go 'head, Sistah Love wicho BAD se'f. Now, pray that i can find a love who can COUNT to a hunnert WIF me;-)...Lawd give me patience...

Lovebabz said...

Capcity,
You are the craziest woman! But I know what you mean! I am making the same prayer!

Eb the Celeb said...

beautiful... so late but led here by knowitall who refered to it in a post!

Lovebabz said...

Hey EB,
Never late! If you have time start from 1 and work your way to 100!