Capcity and I launched a new site...The Pussy Chats or for those of you with sensitive ears and tongues the PChats
Now PChats is strictly in celebration of all things PUSSY! We are celebrating, praising and admiring women and anyone and everyone who love women.
Now I know this may be a bit much for the masses, but those who may be curious ought to come over and lurk, check us out. It is a lot of fun for me and a totally different vibe. Oh and there is a killer playlist! I mean just set it there as you do your housework...OOOH it is HOT! We are rocking everything from Tom Jones, "She's A Lady" to Annie Lennox "Cold", Aretha Franklin "Call Me", Cher "Take Me Home"The Temptations "Ain't Too Proud to Beg" Nancy Wilson "The Best Is Yet To Come" Yeah it is a killer playlist...all celebrating the power of the "P"
I posted my first erotic attempt. The Mundane is Sexy...
Hey, I need to release all this energy in some way...and this is safe!
Drop in, post if you like or just lurk. Enjoy!
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Showing posts with label Pussy Chats. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pussy Chats. Show all posts
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Monday, June 2, 2008
LOVE MY BODY...THE BEGINNING
As I said I was going to stop this body hatred. I am stopping this unhealthy feeling about my body. I am going to change my mind about this body and work hard at undoing the negative talk.
I am going to stand naked in my mirror and I am going to tell all the parts of my body that I hate, that I actually love them. The very fat tummy, the very fat thighs. the fat upper arms, the round middle. I am loving it and honoring this body. I will no longer look at these parts in disgust. I will look lovingly over this naked body and be grateful everything works.
I can not be defined by how I look. I have to be defined how I go about the world in love. Living in love. How can I let love rule if I keep running the negative tape in my head about how this body is unattractive. That is not loving. This is conditioning of self-hatred. It starts early and grows and grows and stays with you like a nasty virus. We start the negative talk with "I'll be happy once I lose 20 lbs" "Oh once I drop all this weight then I will be happy" Or we pick ourselves apart because it's easier to do than admire and love our body image. Imagine if we all just said: I LOVE MY BODY without any ifs, ands, or buts. Imagine if we stop comparing our bodies to other bodies., especially to movie stars, singers and video vixens. I am not Vivica Fox, I look more like Jill Scott. I do not look like Mariah Carey, I look more like Monique...you know the full figure comedian.
I am who I am. Now it doesn't mean I don't get out and move this body...I am. It doesn't mean that I eat and drink with abandon...I don't. It means that I change my mind about how I think about how I look. It means that I focus on health and not just weight-loss. It starts with exercising with the mindset that it's good for my heart , good for my lungs, good for overall health.
This is the beginning of loving my body. I must do this. I cannot accept someone else loving this body, making love to me if I do not. I have to come fully into this LOVE. I have to come kindly to myself and to this body.
Speaking of body love check out my new hang-out: The Pussy Chats check it for the chats stay for the hot and sexy music playlist!
I am going to stand naked in my mirror and I am going to tell all the parts of my body that I hate, that I actually love them. The very fat tummy, the very fat thighs. the fat upper arms, the round middle. I am loving it and honoring this body. I will no longer look at these parts in disgust. I will look lovingly over this naked body and be grateful everything works.
I can not be defined by how I look. I have to be defined how I go about the world in love. Living in love. How can I let love rule if I keep running the negative tape in my head about how this body is unattractive. That is not loving. This is conditioning of self-hatred. It starts early and grows and grows and stays with you like a nasty virus. We start the negative talk with "I'll be happy once I lose 20 lbs" "Oh once I drop all this weight then I will be happy" Or we pick ourselves apart because it's easier to do than admire and love our body image. Imagine if we all just said: I LOVE MY BODY without any ifs, ands, or buts. Imagine if we stop comparing our bodies to other bodies., especially to movie stars, singers and video vixens. I am not Vivica Fox, I look more like Jill Scott. I do not look like Mariah Carey, I look more like Monique...you know the full figure comedian.
I am who I am. Now it doesn't mean I don't get out and move this body...I am. It doesn't mean that I eat and drink with abandon...I don't. It means that I change my mind about how I think about how I look. It means that I focus on health and not just weight-loss. It starts with exercising with the mindset that it's good for my heart , good for my lungs, good for overall health.
This is the beginning of loving my body. I must do this. I cannot accept someone else loving this body, making love to me if I do not. I have to come fully into this LOVE. I have to come kindly to myself and to this body.
Speaking of body love check out my new hang-out: The Pussy Chats check it for the chats stay for the hot and sexy music playlist!
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
PUSSY ANYONE?...
The power of The PUSSY is phenomenal. Wars started and ended because of PUSSY. Men and women alike, lie, steal and harm for the sweet sweet nectar that only PUSSY can give.
What is it about the word and the attachment of the word to a female organ that just calling it out loud, is enough to make folks cringe in embarrassment, guilt, and shame. The PUSSY is indeed powerful!
But who owns the right to call it PUSSY? Who gets to decided the power of the word PUSSY? And why is this word so maligned, hated, feared and celebrated?
Capcity and I and a few of our blog Sisters, Ms. Smack, Princess TinyButt are going to explore the ins and outs of PUSSY. We are reclaiming the word PUSSY and we are telling our stories, sharing our tales of PUSSY woes. Yes, we are talking PUSSY and we want you to come over and join in. If you want to join US we'll send you an invitation, or you can come by and post on any PUSSY Chat topic you like! Email: http://www.capcity4@yahoo.com/ or lovebabz@gmail.com
PUSSY Chats
...No lost puss in the Woods...
Just Real Grown Folks.
1000 Things I want To Do Before I Die:
41. Learn to roller skate/in-line skate
42. Swim...well.
43. Become a magician...ah yeah...so!
44. Sail a yacht...preferably my own!
45. Learn how to play poker...especially "Texas Hold Em"
What is it about the word and the attachment of the word to a female organ that just calling it out loud, is enough to make folks cringe in embarrassment, guilt, and shame. The PUSSY is indeed powerful!
But who owns the right to call it PUSSY? Who gets to decided the power of the word PUSSY? And why is this word so maligned, hated, feared and celebrated?
Capcity and I and a few of our blog Sisters, Ms. Smack, Princess TinyButt are going to explore the ins and outs of PUSSY. We are reclaiming the word PUSSY and we are telling our stories, sharing our tales of PUSSY woes. Yes, we are talking PUSSY and we want you to come over and join in. If you want to join US we'll send you an invitation, or you can come by and post on any PUSSY Chat topic you like! Email: http://www.capcity4@yahoo.com/ or lovebabz@gmail.com
PUSSY Chats
...No lost puss in the Woods...
Just Real Grown Folks.
1000 Things I want To Do Before I Die:
41. Learn to roller skate/in-line skate
42. Swim...well.
43. Become a magician...ah yeah...so!
44. Sail a yacht...preferably my own!
45. Learn how to play poker...especially "Texas Hold Em"
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