Saturday, August 16, 2008

SHE'S 5 GOING ON 20...A REPOST

The cool thing about having a year's worth of posts is that you can go back and revisit them.

Saturday, August 11, 2007

SHE'S 5 GOING ON 20
This morning my 5 year old daughter was in the shower--she loves taking showers, anyway as I am washing her she asks if she can wash herself with her Boots scrubby--Boots is the best friend of Dora the Explorer. I let her, and she does a great job! I am so proud and so sad, because I am realizing she is growing up and learning to become quite the independent child. She gets out of the shower and wants to dry herself off. I let her and she does a great job, I am impressed.

It seems so long ago she was this tiny little baby that was placed in my arms. All my children are adopted, she was the only one that arrived as a newborn, 2 weeks old and just barely 5 lbs. This child wasn't supposed to live, as a matter of fact they--the Dept of Children and Families was expecting her to die. But she didn't. The foster home she was in was only temporary they couldn't take another child but did so for this baby. When we got the call we had to say yes immediately. I remember the day they brought her home, she was buried in a pink one piece that was 3-4 months too big. All those memories came rushing back as she is standing there in the bathroom telling me she can do things all by herself. Of course I am happy that she is becoming more and more self-sufficient, however there is a part of me that is missing that beautiful baby that so desperately needed me.

This is the joy of motherhood growing them and letting them go out into the world. Yes of course, I have time before they're off to college, but still I can only imagine how painful that will be. So today I am in awe of my beautiful 5 year pressing me for her independence. Tomorrow it will be something else, perhaps permission to ride her bike past the Jackson's house or staying up an extra 15 minutes past bedtime and I will weigh my decision carefully.

I swear motherhood is fleeting, if you blink you miss it.

9 comments:

Monica said...

"I swear motherhood is fleeting, if you blink you miss it"

I have not blinked in four years!

I am walkin' roun' here with bamboo shoots holding my eyelids open, just in case I even think about closing them for one minute!

Enjoy every minute of it! I have some extra bamboo shoots if you need any...

Take care!

Lovebabz said...

Hey Monica,

Sister,
I swear it seems time has flown by. My kids have grown so much and are doing so much on their own. It is amazing!

Yes I have bamboo shoot...a lifetime supply.

Monique said...

Awwww....my son is just two weeks old and I am not trying to miss a moment of anything that happens in his life. He's grown so much in two weeks and I'm so happy to have seen every bit of it.

laurie said...

This is so, so beautiful.

Lovebabz said...

Monique,

Take lot and lots of photos! They grow so much!

Hi Laurie,
Ther is a part of me that longs for that baby and hter is a part that looks forward tothe gorwn woman she will become! In any case it goes by so FAST!

Lovebabz said...

morush4evr said...
Isn't it crazy how time flies? Although we can't rewind, we sure can embrace each moment to its fullest and live happily day to day.

Your daughter sounds so adorable. They are the sweetest at this age. Watch out..here come the questions... ; )

Hello Morush4ever,

My daugther is a piece of work! She is now 6 and she is EXHAUSTING and I love every minute of her existence. Where did the time go? I swear I blinked and she is 6 years old. I feel that way with all of them. Like I didn't have enough tme with them as babies!

The questions have begun and I answer them truthfully and honestly. How can I not...I love them so.

NoRegrets said...

How sweet.

nonlineargirl said...

That is such a sweet post. I so relate to that mixed emotion of joy and sadness that a child is growing up.

aoc gold said...

The Arrow And The Song

(1)

I shot an arrow in the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where; ;

For so swiftly it flew, the sight
Could not follow it in its flight.

(2)

I breathed a song into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;

For who has sight so keen and strong,
That it can follow the flight of song?

(3)

Long, long afterward, in an oak

I found the arrow still unbroke;

And the song, from beginning to end, ,

I found again in the heart of a friend. 。

-----by aoc power leveling