I am declaring myself available to date!
Beautiful & charming divorced Mother of 4 well-behaved and lovely children seeking single Black Man with kind heart and loving disposition...Prince Charmings need not apply. Real Men ONLY! See Love List (100 things I want in a lover).
I have been spinning my wheels about should I or shouldn't I date. I have been on the fence. I have been waiting for some magical sign. Well I got one last night! No I am not going to share what it was just yet. But for me the switch flipped on! I could be dating. I am ready to date. Now I am not ready to go beyond dating. But I would like to sit in the company of a man and enjoy conversation, laughs, music and time. I want late night conversations about how to save the world, how to make great pecan pie w/o butter and how to get kids to bed, and favorite movies and favorite lines in movies, and favorite places to gaze at the moon.
Now that I said it out to the universe and backed it up with a Love List means that I am moving forward. Now I am not going to become a party girl. Nor am I going to hang out with any man that asks. What I am saying is that I am ready for good times to roll. I am ready to put my whole self out there. I Am ready to test the waters. I am ready to be courted.
Life is short. I want to enjoy life's riches while I can, while I am vibrant and willing. Wanting this does not interfere with my goals, plans, dreams. If anything, it adds to the richness of my life. I am woman made for love. I am good on a team.
So spread the word far and wide! I am ready! I am ready! I am ready!
Happy Birthday #54 to ME!
10 months ago
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I love this blog! I believe I will hangout here for a while and rest! I saw a video yesterday that broke my heart and I wrote some tips on how to safely date when you first meet someone that you would like to get to know.
http://jhazzaisworld.wordpress.com/2008/10/07/tips-on-how-to-date-safely-in-the-millenium/
I love this post and I love your courage! We are on the same page and I can't wait to read about some of your dates - you are going to share them, right? :)
Welcome Jhazzai's World,
Thank you very much! Youa re welcome to hang out here as long as you like.
Hey MzTeeJaye,
I am glad you love this post. I have to get some dates first! I am not above asking men out. I just have be where there are some men! But yes, I when I get a date I will write about it...LOL!
there's no such thing as prince charming, nor is their a fairy tale. dating is fun... just stay away from the dragons in the moat!
Hi Love,
I am proud of you for putting it out there. Know what you want so you can claim it when it comes. I am sure you will be pleasantly surprised soon, just keep your options open. You know I live celebrating, keep me posted?
P.S. My second installment celebrating brothers is up today. Stop by when you get a chance.
Good luck chic :)
Go head on and do the darn thing, Babz!!
One word for ya sis.....
YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!
Hey Kay C, The Quiet Storm,
I gotta jump! And I love your piece on celebrating Brothers!
Pajnstl,
I think I am going to need luck! LOL!
Hey Flutter,
Shoot I am going and I am going to date!
Sister Ladylee,
I am going to do my very best!
Sister Sharon,
Thank you...now pray for me...everynight! EVERYNIGHT!
You're so, so very inspiring. Thank you!
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