Wednesday, October 8, 2008


I am declaring myself available to date!

Beautiful & charming divorced Mother of 4 well-behaved and lovely children seeking single Black Man with kind heart and loving disposition...Prince Charmings need not apply. Real Men ONLY! See Love List (100 things I want in a lover).

I have been spinning my wheels about should I or shouldn't I date. I have been on the fence. I have been waiting for some magical sign. Well I got one last night! No I am not going to share what it was just yet. But for me the switch flipped on! I could be dating. I am ready to date. Now I am not ready to go beyond dating. But I would like to sit in the company of a man and enjoy conversation, laughs, music and time. I want late night conversations about how to save the world, how to make great pecan pie w/o butter and how to get kids to bed, and favorite movies and favorite lines in movies, and favorite places to gaze at the moon.

Now that I said it out to the universe and backed it up with a Love List means that I am moving forward. Now I am not going to become a party girl. Nor am I going to hang out with any man that asks. What I am saying is that I am ready for good times to roll. I am ready to put my whole self out there. I Am ready to test the waters. I am ready to be courted.

Life is short. I want to enjoy life's riches while I can, while I am vibrant and willing. Wanting this does not interfere with my goals, plans, dreams. If anything, it adds to the richness of my life. I am woman made for love. I am good on a team.

So spread the word far and wide! I am ready! I am ready! I am ready!



I love this blog! I believe I will hangout here for a while and rest! I saw a video yesterday that broke my heart and I wrote some tips on how to safely date when you first meet someone that you would like to get to know.

MzTeeJaye said...

I love this post and I love your courage! We are on the same page and I can't wait to read about some of your dates - you are going to share them, right? :)

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Lovebabz said...

Welcome Jhazzai's World,
Thank you very much! Youa re welcome to hang out here as long as you like.

Hey MzTeeJaye,
I am glad you love this post. I have to get some dates first! I am not above asking men out. I just have be where there are some men! But yes, I when I get a date I will write about it...LOL!

liv said...

there's no such thing as prince charming, nor is their a fairy tale. dating is fun... just stay away from the dragons in the moat!

Lovebabz said...

Hi Liv,
You are right! And I am no princess! Queen YES! A queen that can slay her own fucking dragons!

Kay C, The Quiet Storm said...

Hi Love,

I am proud of you for putting it out there. Know what you want so you can claim it when it comes. I am sure you will be pleasantly surprised soon, just keep your options open. You know I live celebrating, keep me posted?

P.S. My second installment celebrating brothers is up today. Stop by when you get a chance.

Pajnstl said...

Good luck chic :)

flutter said...

go girl, go!

LadyLee said...

Go head on and do the darn thing, Babz!!

Sharon because it had to be said! said...

One word for ya sis.....


Lovebabz said...

Hey Kay C, The Quiet Storm,
I gotta jump! And I love your piece on celebrating Brothers!

I think I am going to need luck! LOL!

Hey Flutter,
Shoot I am going and I am going to date!

Sister Ladylee,
I am going to do my very best!

Sister Sharon,
Thank pray for me...everynight! EVERYNIGHT!

Angie-Nuvision said...

You're so, so very inspiring. Thank you!