Commit: To give in trust or charge; consign.
To pledge (oneself) to a position on an issue or question; express (one's intention, feeling, etc.)
We are having the Commitment Talk tomorrow. We are going to sit and talk openly and honestly about a future together or go our separate ways. We are going to bare ourselves and pledge love one way or the other. We are going to seriously explore moving toward marriage. It will be a very serious discussion about who we are and what we want, require, need and want from each other.
It is time to exhale. It is time to decide to go or stay. We already know love exists. We already know that when we kiss and lay together the world stops and races to meet our passion. What we are committing to is the going the distance. To staying rooted even when the wolves come howling. Forsaking all others for the sake of each other and this family we are strengthening.
He asks: "Do you Trust me?" "Respect Me?" and "Why do you want me for your Man?" He states: "I don't have the same education as you". "I don't make anywhere near the kind of money you do." "I live simply" "Are you serious"
I am standing at a pivotal point in my life. Love has come round. Love that I have asked for, hoped for, tried to get rid of. Whatever fears I have used as an excuse, obstacle and wedge to keep me from being in love are put away. I am stepping into this love. I am surrending my mess.
I am ready for the conversation to commit.