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An Extraordinary Life Examined. Notes and views on being an EX-Wife, Mother, Felon and Citizen of the world. This is my personal journey of how I am moving forward with grace and tenderness.
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I have tried never to maintain a grudge towards anyone. It is a default position when the result of any relationship is "less than good".
One of the few times in my life where I found myself stuck in the fugue between letting go and moving on was in my starter marriage. Early after our divorce, I thought that I hated her, and I realized that the thought of hating her was adding weight to my life, slowing me down.
Hating is a coward's move. It is a shift in responsibility from the self to outside of the self, and from these spiritual speakers and their words, that to allow for something outside of the self to make decisions and affect our choices is a form of denial. We are the choices we make and all of the choices are the conscious manifestation of our own truest selves.
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