tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post3540225403904472535..comments2023-10-31T04:46:00.311-04:00Comments on Lovebabz: A Life in Transition: UN-DAY: THE EX' NUPTIALS, MOJITOS AND NEW REVELATIONSBabz Rawls Ivyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-68427051913724960322010-07-19T14:05:47.259-04:002010-07-19T14:05:47.259-04:00I really didn't want to agree with Pantsy here...I really didn't want to agree with Pantsy here. I swear I didn't... but... I must admit to wondering the same through this love story.<br /><br />I won't deny for one moment that this is a true love story. I believe you and your Mr. have an electric chemistry that many would cut off an arm to experience.<br /><br />But I can't help but note how critical he remains of who you are... of where you are in life... as if he should be the master of your thoughts, flaws, proclivities, thought processes, and behavior.<br /><br />Thankfully, the nature of love and learning means a happy ending can easily be around the corner for the two of you... no matter how it looks now. :-)Her Sidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00203876781343228134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-74301139120100800432010-07-05T18:57:53.470-04:002010-07-05T18:57:53.470-04:00Hey there,
I've been appreciating your blog s...Hey there,<br /><br />I've been appreciating your blog since early 2008. <br /><br />Maybe I'm misunderstanding something here. Maybe I'm missing something. <br /><br />I'm totally with the others on the fear issue. And yes, I'm sure there are things about you that can be improved (as with all of us). <br /><br /><br />But... it just seems to me that he is so relentlessly critical of you, and so controlling! Why should he be put out that you're not 'considering him' on your ex's wedding day? I don't get it. <br /><br />You're the one who needed to be considered in that situation... right? Anyone would. <br /><br />Apologies if I'm out of line. Just trying to understand...Pantsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01032052579748209160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-36539549992145946552010-06-29T11:58:27.046-04:002010-06-29T11:58:27.046-04:00Dearest Madame Love,
Yes, have your UN day. I und...Dearest Madame Love,<br /><br />Yes, have your UN day. I understand the need and KUDOS to the bff for bringing the Mojitos. <br /><br />I also understand it is hard to not give in to fear. To let love in without doubt. Baby steps. <br /><br />My performance group's artistic director tells us all the time "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time."<br /><br />One bite at a time my dear.<br /><br />(((HUGS)))KayC, The Quiet Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906296213022463052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-43551909849562285382010-06-28T15:01:50.409-04:002010-06-28T15:01:50.409-04:00For some of us, FEAR feels more comfortable than L...For some of us, FEAR feels more comfortable than LOVE. It's something you can count on being there, because it's all around us, seeking to embrace us and constrict our actions<br /><br />Fear is the opposite of Love. It can last longer, and it rarely fails to disappoint us, because we expect it. Fear seeks full control and ownership of us. <br /><br />Love, REAL LOVE does not. Real Love is the enemy of fear. It doesn't paralyze us, or make us paranoid. It simply opens its arms and embraces us without gripping TOO tightly and without hurting so much.<br /><br />It seems less difficult to accept being fearful than it is to our minds, our hearts, and our naked selves up to the risks of Love. <br /><br />But when someone is ready, willing & has proven able to take that risk with us, and do to so, FEARLESSLY, it speaks to the purity of the SPIRIT they SEE in YOU. <br /><br />The rest, my Sista, is up to YOU! So, be BRAVE!<br /><br /><br /><br />btw: your keeids looked adorable.<br /><br /><br />SJ!<br /><br />One.<br /><br />LinMoanerplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02750801733829859144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-78380210763232490412010-06-27T21:52:53.826-04:002010-06-27T21:52:53.826-04:00I'd like to through myself into this but I am ...I'd like to through myself into this but I am practicing restraint here. Or trying to.<br /><br />Because I don't know the particulars and can only go by what is written and how those words impact upon me and how they relate to my experience, I recognize a lot of what you said in your last paragraph. And if you can acknowledge the tip, ( Yes there is a great deal of truth in all that. More truth than I first realized) then you are prepared to deal with what lies beneath the surface.<br /><br />I have heard women say this time and again, but they set themselves up for fail by not actually addressing the problem. Even in admitting the fear isn't enough. You simply MUST do something about it.Big Mark 243https://www.blogger.com/profile/10974573439218884164noreply@blogger.com