tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post1183016487163517..comments2023-10-31T04:46:00.311-04:00Comments on Lovebabz: A Life in Transition: FAITH FORWARD FRIDAY: WINNING MYSELF OVERBabz Rawls Ivyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-12118819980750397952008-10-26T01:05:00.000-04:002008-10-26T01:05:00.000-04:00While I have lived 78.6% of my life attempting to ...While I have lived 78.6% of my life attempting to have people like or love me, at some point, I decided the one person that needs to love and like me is myself... once I did that, I found that almost everyone else started liking me, and those that didn't, well, I really didn't give a bleep.<BR/><BR/>After all, if one doesn't like one's self, how the heck is anyone else going to? <BR/><BR/>So look at yourself and decide what you love about yourself and enjoy those aspects of yourself. Ignore the parts you don't love, and they will wither away as you strengthen the parts you do love.<BR/><BR/>Gosh I really love the way I commented on this post, have an amazing day!<BR/><BR/>Micheal Savoie<BR/>http://twitter.com/michealsavoieAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11034911115955061124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-55940290100560331172008-10-25T22:43:00.000-04:002008-10-25T22:43:00.000-04:00ummm... CORRECTION ALERT.... my first sentence sho...ummm... CORRECTION ALERT.... my first sentence shoulda read: <BR/><BR/>don't think there's a person on this planet that doesn't WANT to be liked, loved or accepted...Moanerplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02750801733829859144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-34591657160785055442008-10-25T22:41:00.000-04:002008-10-25T22:41:00.000-04:00i don't think there's a person on this planet that...i don't think there's a person on this planet that doesn't to be liked, loved or accepted (even those who'll claim they don't care). the challenge comes in not working overtime, or to one's own detriment to make that happen. the trick, the riddle, the rub is how to maintain authenticity, be true to yourself, and not bend or become some entertaining puppet in order to capture someone's delight.<BR/><BR/>nice post, my Sista.<BR/><BR/>One.Moanerplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02750801733829859144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-88564925406306366992008-10-25T18:06:00.000-04:002008-10-25T18:06:00.000-04:00I find myself doing things to make men like me, be...I find myself doing things to make men like me, because I am manipulative and meddlesome. What I realized at Church last week was that having Faith means trusting in the divine plan and trusting means knowing I don't have to manipulate the math to make it work.A.u.n.t. Jackiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06342245586271716564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-17680847858779362002008-10-25T12:32:00.000-04:002008-10-25T12:32:00.000-04:00Welcome LifeCoachKaren!Thank you for your kind wor...Welcome LifeCoachKaren!<BR/>Thank you for your kind words. i do hope you drop in from time to time. You are alwasy welcome here *smile*Babz Rawls Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-14087870167788958412008-10-25T11:29:00.001-04:002008-10-25T11:29:00.001-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.LifeCoachKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16285489123204908379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-79113609123779528822008-10-25T11:29:00.000-04:002008-10-25T11:29:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.LifeCoachKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16285489123204908379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-30295860766300442362008-10-25T11:28:00.000-04:002008-10-25T11:28:00.000-04:00awareness is a HUGE step in self-care, self-love! ...awareness is a HUGE step in self-care, self-love! go girl! you are well on your way. And, loved all the positive energy and attitude as you wrote about it. thanks for sharing your heart and these great reminders.LifeCoachKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16285489123204908379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-52154335748438672222008-10-25T11:24:00.000-04:002008-10-25T11:24:00.000-04:00Kay C,Thanks! OJ glasses are bing raised all over ...Kay C,<BR/>Thanks! OJ glasses are bing raised all over the place...that's my wish!<BR/><BR/>Torrance,<BR/>Your a PEACH! Thanks!<BR/><BR/>Professor<BR/>I am so getting there. I am already there...LOL!<BR/><BR/>MzTeeJaye<BR/>Half the battle is recognizing that its my character flaw and working hard to correct it. Yeah I am still a work in progress!<BR/><BR/>Keisha,<BR/>Hello and Girl the trick is not to keep going back to the same mess.Babz Rawls Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-36411433718717235162008-10-25T09:28:00.000-04:002008-10-25T09:28:00.000-04:00Hey Sistah....Been there and done that....I so fee...Hey Sistah....<BR/><BR/>Been there and done that....I so feel you on this one! Once again good stuff....Keisha "Kitten" Isaacshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02481825775250529786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-77333342505832039362008-10-24T19:09:00.000-04:002008-10-24T19:09:00.000-04:00Welcome back! And yes, I have dealt with the same ...Welcome back! And yes, I have dealt with the same issue. I have to work at it, being conscious in every moment...I'm getting betterThat Writer Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16056214026452549186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-26857550408406873422008-10-24T14:10:00.000-04:002008-10-24T14:10:00.000-04:00"changing myself to make someone "love" me. Trying..."changing myself to make someone "love" me. Trying to make them see I am "good enough" to be loved"...been there done did that and I've learned it's not worth it...if they don't respect you fundamentally than no matter how you try to change yourself it just won't work...I'm to the point now where it's take me as I am or fuck it...I'm quite happy by myself...professorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11899000155217475130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-2230338762434112072008-10-24T12:41:00.000-04:002008-10-24T12:41:00.000-04:00yes indeed u win folkyes indeed u win folkAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4650845911079200343.post-83474431057891679792008-10-24T08:55:00.000-04:002008-10-24T08:55:00.000-04:00I sooooooo needed to hear that today. We are kindr...I sooooooo needed to hear that today. We are kindred spirits in this life journey. I am guilty of doing the exact same thing, changing myself to make someone "love" me. Trying to make them see I am "good enough" to be loved.<BR/><BR/>It stops here! *Raising my cup of orange juice in a toast* No More!!!!KayC, The Quiet Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906296213022463052noreply@blogger.com